
Let me save you 10 years of therapy and a $12,000 Tony Robbins seminar: Being a “nice guy” gets you nowhere.
You know the guy. Holds doors open. Smiles too much. Pays for dinner while she texts Chad. Nods politely while his soul dies one compromise at a time. Thinks he’s playing the long game but he’s just being benched.
Newsflash, cupcake: The world doesn’t reward nice. It rewards strong. Direct. Unapologetic. “Nice” is what you call someone when you can’t remember anything else about them.
Now I’m not saying be a d*ck for sport—but for the love of whiskey and logic, grow a spine. Speak your truth. Say “no.” Own your flaws. Laugh loud. Fight for your space in the room.
You think George Carlin gave a damn who he offended? You think Dice Clay waited to be “liked”? You think Bill Burr edits himself to make sure everyone’s comfy? Hell no.
They speak because they have to. And so do I. And if you’re still reading this, so do you.
Stop being digestible. Be unforgettable.
